Break the patriarchy of Gender. Let no (hu)man tell us how to dress, groom, talk, walk or breathe. Let textbooks have men with long hair and man bun, let women fashion celebrate bald and undercuts.

We claim to have freedom of speech, education, and everything straight. Why not have the freedom to explore ourself for once.

You don't tell me who I am referring to my attair or amount of body hair I inherit, you have no right to judge my comfort and my fashion.

I let you be yourself, please let me be. Let me define and redefine what's feminity and masculinity.

I've straps under my shirt and lace under my denim. I'm not rubbing in on your face, it's not buzz worthy too.

I wish that everyone loved their selves a little more, not as a man or a woman, just HUMAN.
May be I was born in the wrong era. Mind and body stuck in the 'Summer of Love' , living my life as a flowerchild. Young souls were not bigoted by sexism, racism and all poisonous ism(s). Living was effortless, surviving was not even a question. Nothing would've really mattered, not my clothes, my lovers or my opinions.

Half a century and the world has changed its face. Intolerance and malevolence combined, every new day is like one step in the mine field. Politics, religion, sexuality and reality itself are hand grenades with no safety levers. Mere thought of trigger, and KABOOM!

Finally the fashion from 60s are back, I fancy that the culture shifts too. I pray there be no war for freedom to be yourself, we fought enough over No man's land, power and even water, all that could be solved if they sat down to talk. Don't muddle around, ask me your urging questions, I'll tell you who I am and why this face.

Let's sit down and talk over avocado toasts!
The amount of courage one needs to step out of his/their closet, dressed in florals, animal prints and all that fun things from women fashion itself is remarkable. Then starts the rapid fire round. If he's trying to dress as a women, why is there hair everywhere? Is he an actual he or she? Masculine skin show is acceptable but not the feminine side of someone with a stubble and chest hair.

To the confused crowd who is shooting these never ending list of burning questions, I get it, not everyone is blessed with working set of neurons or have the previlage to be born the right family, but have the common sense not to intrude into other's freedom of being themselves, to live their life as they wish. You don't have to be an ally or start practicing it the next day, simply accept the fact that this is someone's happiness and don't kill their smile. He/they are not a threat to you or your sexuality, your religion or community.

They are harmless fashionable creatures looking for a haven.
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